Serious Help Needed

Hey Everyone,

I want a few minutes of your important time to share my story. I have made a site : <<URL removed due to some links located on this page that can harm users' computers>> in which I provide guitar lessons, chords and tabs. This is my first site ever which I started on July, 2011 that's 8 months from now. I have done everything since then to build my traffic with the best I could do : SEO, Social Marketting, posting on forums, commenting on similar site, submitting in search directories and a thousand similar things (I think I have tried every possible traffic building techniques I read online). But the result was a maximum of 350 visitors on a particular day and since then it has never touched that number. Still, after much effort the number of visitors per day reached upto about 200 per day this January. But than tragedy hit, my site closed for about 15 days because of some server breakdown. And now number of visitors has gone down to 20-30 per day. What luck!

8 months of hard work, 50+ posts, unlimited online hours = 20-30 visitors per day.

This is definetly not a luck matter, I'm sure I'm doing something wrong and repeating the same mistake again and agian. I'm not here for any sympathy of any kind. I just want you to tell me where I was lacking and what should I do to get this fixed.

Thank you all in advance.

Regards,
Ram