IDS: I'd like to point out that we're not an "Asian pride community". Sorry if my orignal post was misleading. I just like the feel of those sites. Right now, the design looks a bit too simple and plain. You have a good start but maybe try going into the more 'graphic-heavy' direction like on yaXay.com if you know what I mean. And can you try using layers of darker gray for the forums area rather than that light grey that you have? We'll see how it looks. So work on it so it's not so simple and once you've filled in the header, then post another preview
You've got a good start. Just add more.
Edit: I'd also like to add that I'm looking for a unique look.