1. I'd say this is part of the reason why forums are dying. Refusal to evolve. Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, StackOverflow, and YouTube, all these websites allow users to delete their content. Just forums stuck in the stone-age worried about losing precious content don't allow it.
If you're worried about users covering their tracks you can easily store the data but hide it from public viewing.
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