Having a kid

Sweet. Good luck, I hope for the best.

If you choose abortion, it should be done within the first trimester.
Shes already 3 months in; think fast.

Congratulations buddy. My fiance is also pregnant; she's 5 months now.

Hey,

I dont think you should abort, i think its a totally wrong process, your killing a potential kid who could have an awesome life and your takign that away from him... If you go through with it i would be sick to my stomach knowing of what you had done.... Seriously though, i say put it up for adoption or something... Next time wear a condom buddy.... :S

Originally Posted by Eversuns Next time wear a condom buddy.... :S

Sod that, wear a lead pipe.

I still live at my parents house and i'm working on making money on affiliate programs and construction. My girl is 1 month and 3 weeks. It's amazing I love her mommy to so that makes a big difference. I'm 24 so alot of years go by. Gotta ask yourself would your regret anything. I've seen abortion pictures.. The baby just looks like a small human being. If the child is going to be warm and loved then that is what counts. will

Don't abort, could you really live with yourself knowing you killed a child? Get a job, take responsibility and marry her. This is why my wife and I waited till marriage to have sex.

My advice is to calmly tell your parents and assure them you will marry her. At your age you probably cant father a child, you aren't old enough or rich enough. If you think you can, go for it. If you dont think you can, adopt. Just don't kill the baby.

Blue Ire and Village Idiot both have more experience with life, as they are older and have been around the block. I'd go with what they have to say. But definitely consult your parents, and possibly a religiously affiliated person?

Originally Posted by JamesH But definitely consult your parents, and possibly a religiously affiliated person?

Ya if you belong to an organized religion (and believe their schtick), talk to your priest, pastor, or spirit guide. Even if you don't, they can talk about options as most large religions offer excellent parenting classes and services, as well as top tier adoption processes.

YOu can do that thing they did on lost where you find a couple who can't conceive and there is some legal contract so that as soon as the baby is born it belongs to them, they are not required to let you ever see the child again though, or tell the child he was adopted.