Velocified: I think it's the tone of your post that insulted Anthony, you MUST do this you MUST do that. It's quite degrading, if you like the overall design I suggest you start off with saying the majority of the positive comments other then saying the negative parts - Else it may sound hurtful to some people, everybody else responds differently to it.
From my experience with Anthony he is quite grown up, I don't see how you came to that conclusion.
Though I think Anthony should have responded differently to this, I see his point and I also see Velocified's point. It's just mouthed wrong, which caused this.

Can't we just all get along?

PS: Yes, there's not alot of critting going on on this forum yet. This will come in time, most comments are still pretty superficial.